He probably welcomes death. If you don't step up to the plate and take care of "you", who's going to do it for you????? Why this photo of Markle sends a powerful message, 'Property Brothers' show sued by homeowners, Fact check: Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez's net worth, Johnny Damon during arrest: 'I am Blue Lives Matter', House passes Biden's $1.9 trillion relief package, Stars react to Piers Morgan leaving show over royals row, Chipotle unveils new product, but there's a catch, Trump, hungry for power, takes on RNC fundraising, Edelman to Heat player after slur: 'Hate is like a virus', More accusers allege sexual misconduct against couple, Piers Morgan stands by Meghan Markle remarks. Why does a husband of 25 years tell his ex mistress he misses her. Does she say " OH uhh i got to do something, Bye" and walks away after you ask her to go hang out with you like she normally does? Ever talk to him about what he wants to be doing 10 years from now ? Question. But we never have sex anymore! We love our children dearly and take great pleasure in them and are good parents together. You tell them things about yourself that even your closest friends don ' t know. I'm not being stupid, I just know that he isn't cheating. One minute he is really nice to me and the next he is mean. All men look at porn, that's normal. Hope this helps : ). (Deep breath, here goes!) Good Luck! He sometimes picks fights for no reason, but then he will apologize right after and if I threaten to leave then he will beg me to stay. Yes. interesting statement.... the controling and picking fights may have to do with a new lifestyle, a wife who no longer places him but the child first, (as it has to be), his new role, new financial burdens, maybe lack of sleep.. as far as the porn.......he's a guy...guys like naked women...right or wrong i don't believe this is abnormal behavior or behavior that you can derive much from. He has been signed off work but all ��� I Have been married for 7 years. My husband has lost interest in sex. The only thing that bothers me is that you seem to be quick to threaten him. My best friend seems to have lost interest in me in recent times. Now he has lost his sex attraction for me. Learn how you can strengthen the bond between the two of ��� No, my husband isn't gay. We use to have a pretty active sex life. I'd be researching suicide methods. But we never have sex anymore! I used to be much more attractive than my husband (not trying to put him down and I really love him). He has lost all sex drive and interest in me physically, never has an erection at any time of day. Good luck! Chances are he will do it again, and this is considered verbal abuse as well as emotional abuse. my hubby use to be loving towards me and sex and romance was the best. "Kill me please " ? We both gained weight. If all else fails, hire a babysitter for an evening and greet him at the door when he comes home from work in some lingerie or naked is always good and just attack him! He doesn't have time...lol. Sounds like you are the only one making them. But you could also check out couples retreats online...there are places that you can go for a weekend, get a bit of counseling, and gain back the spark. How do I tell my husband I don't want to work it out anymore after his affair ? She���ll still see me when we meet in groups and is very pleasant, but it���s as if the connection we had has been lost somehow, although I don���t feel it���s a natural evolution of our friendship. I'm not being selfish, I just wanted to HELPFUL advice from others who were going through similar situations. I know he isn't cheating on me. Share any advice that may help. The questions below are designed to help you see if that is true. They're usually free. Not a big deal. My husband and I have been married for over 4 years now. 6. Is she cheating on you or lost interest in you? Psychologist���s Reply. I love him dearly and I know he loves me. Write to him at dearrichard@telegraph.co.uk We have a 2 year old daughter. Get your answers by asking now. A change in your girlfriend���s behavior may signal a shift in her level of commitment to your relationship. Talk to him about it, don't attack him just tell him how you feel and listen to what he says. Our agony uncle answers your questions each week. I checked his internet history and have seen that he is looking up naked pictures of all of these women all of the time and will make up excuses to leave me and his daughter to look at them. Honestly, would YOU want his life ? His classroom is just across from me in the hallway. Will anyone get better after the coronavirus? I have been with my partner for 8 years (married for 18 months) and have noticed that our sex life has decreased rapidly ever since coming back from honeymoon. Ask him casually what sort of ideas might he have to spice up your sex life. Sheeze lady, what a life ! 3/4/2013 at 10:21 PM. Your avatar name is "Life is good" ? You grow to be comfortable around your crush and get the sense that everything is all fine and dandy��� until one ��� Well, it has been almost a month...and nothing. ? Remind him what he has been missing out on :). Sorry for the length :S. I don't know if he's lost interest in you, or if he ever had interest in you... but I do know that he doesn't respect you. You can sign in to vote the answer. NO « » Log in or sign up. Is the fear of your partner losing He doesn���t talk about the future together. y don't u just come out with it and ask him if he wants a bl@w job....i mean u married how would the sexual line of communication could be closed. If he doesn���t care how he looks or has let his weight fall by the wayside, it���s possible he has lost interest in your relationship and is falling out of love. My husband and I have been married for over 4 years now. Why do people let their wife or husband kick them out of their own house? We all dread it and try each day that such a thing doesn���t happen. However! There could be something weighing really heavy on his mind that may not even have anything to do with you that could be the cause of him not initiating anything. Get your answers by asking now. It's definitely not unusual to go through lulls of not having sex through out your marriage. And sweetie, if you put up with someone who doesn't respect you, then you aren't respecting yourself either. I thought that maybe he loved me for me too, but now I am doubting it. Must I just accept it?' I���d like to start by saying that we had an awesome relationship for the last 8 months, but recently she���s become more and more distant and I���m scared that she���s starting to lost interest in me. Ask Ammanda: Addiction treatment taught me to be open ��� but my wife doesn���t want to talk Ask Ammanda: Now our kids have left home, I realise I've got nothing in common with my husband Ask Ammanda: My wife's medical condition has been pushing us apart for years You shouldn't give up or give in to the feelings of loss or confusion. If you have been married for years, there may come a time where you worry if your husband has the same or increased kind of love he had for you when you met back in the day. How do you think about the answers? Ladies: What are your favourite excuses for not having sex? When you like someone, you let your guard down. "jealous of you"? He is totally against gays. My God, if I felt I'd be working in a coal mine until I was too old to work anymore then the only thing that would keep me from suicide is if once I arrived home that you would be constantly trying to feed me and "spitshine my knob". Why do people let their wife or husband kick them out of their own house? We have a 2 year old daughter. We use to have a pretty active sex life. I am totally in love with my fiancé, can’t wait to get married! Dear Richard Madeley: 'I love my husband but he has lost interest in sex. I'm serious. If your partner has lost interest, you will start to notice this sign; feeling like your needs and desires are second place to those of your partner. Putting up with that kills your self-worth. But I am afraid that he is losing interest in me. That's abuse - even if it's threatening to leave. Do you feel that your partner has been a little off lately? As a couple, we seem to have hit a wall. ? For the past couple of years, we had sex a couple of times a week...all parents understand what I'm talking about. Also, I know he is tired. My feelings and words may be confused. Ever since my child was born two years ago my husband won���t have sex with me. Anonymous. Everyone argues sometimes too. 10 Telltale Signs He���s Losing Interest In You - a new mode How do I tell my husband I don't want to work it out anymore after his affair ? Okay...so here it goes. Definitely make it about interesting him not "why dont you like me". he probably doesnt even notice its been a while especially if he is tired or under physical stress...how about u just tell him how u feel. Do yourself a favor and make a list of all the pros and cons about this guy, and I can almost assure you will end up with very few pros. Sometimes this just has to do with timing, other commitments in his or her life or just a sense of security that caused him or her to stop ���trying so hard.��� The good news is that because this person is into you, you shouldn���t be afraid to have a real conversation about what you���d like from them going forward if you feel that your needs aren���t being met. Hey Chris, I���ve noticed some changes in my girlfriend���s behavior recently that is pretty disturbing. (Watch WifeSwap on TV), If that doesn't shock enough than couseling may help! I wonder though if it is just because he doesn't want to be alone. He wasn't very nice to me when I was pregnant, and now after I have given birth I have gained some weight and have stretch marks all over my hips, butt and breasts. Remember the time when he use to sit and talk about things that you two will do in future like, ���One day, we���ll go to Switzerland and stay there for a month,��� ���One ��� Not feeling the relationship anymore? Okay...so here it goes. Hey sweetie, ever think that it isn't all about you? He goes into work at 4 AM in the morning and doesn't get home until 4:30 PM. Well, it has been almost a month...and nothing. Oh, my husband doesn't get into the whole role playing or dressing up. I don't think he has lost interest, he might just be tired! talk to him. 5 Signs You're Losing Interest In Him, So You Might As Well End It Here's my story about me and my crush: In 4th grade (I am in 6th now) he used to be in a normal classroom and he ALWAYS stares at me when he's got the chance. He may have just gotten comfortable with a sexless life and if you don't let him know you are not so comfortable with the way things are, how will he know? I don't even leave the house unless I'm with him. Here are the different scenarios that could be happening: The Biggest Reasons Men Lose Assuming your husband is physically healthy, no, it isn���t normal that the intimacy in your marriage has disappeared. The question is ��� What happened? Well you should start by talking to him. If your husband has lost interest in you, there's still hope for your relationship. What do you think HIS name would be ? Has my husband lost interest in me? Researchers studying relationship breakups found that imbalances in power in the relationship , for example, where one partner controls all of the activities, are connected to relationship conflict, unhappiness, psychological distress, and breakup. One fine morning, you may get up and realize that your romantic world is not that heaven anymore and that your husband has lost interest in you. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. He's been doing that for a long time, well before he met you! for the most part, it seems when someone falls in love with someone, with time the "looks" issue just isn't there, unless the person has really let themselves go, so i doubt this is an issue. Still have questions? there could be an issue with how YOU view yourself that makes him view you differently. The problem with him is he says he still loves me, the problem is with my body and presentation.. maybe he's gay ...and he's having and affair with another coal miner ....bet you never thought about that one did ya, YOUR IN DENIAL....HE'S DEFINATLY A GAY COAL MINER. I���m so hurt & confused because me & my husband were married for 8& 1/2 yrs & we are still together after our divorce so it will be 11 yrs we���ve been together& in the pasts year he���s changed for the worse cause he never wants sex like before & he���s way more distant & we only have sex 2 time���s a month, he doesn���t say I���m beautiful anymore, or compliments me! He is very jealous of me and literally has absolute control of my movement, money, and pretty much everything else. Has he lost interest? I don't know if you want anymore thoughts than that, but I think that you should take the reins...in whatever you can show him what all you do/mean to him! It sounds like he's getting power from dominating you. But he has worked this same shift for years and it never affected him before. Dont ask him if he is losing interest though... they get defensive if you start it out like that. But still sometimes, it does. M y husband has no interest in me as a woman. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. If I worked over 12 hours a day I wouldn't be too elated with my life BUT... if I worked over 12 hours a day in a coal mine ? My husband works in the coal mines and I know he works very hard. Hi! I am totally in love with my fiancé, can’t wait to get married! How do you think about the answers? I wasn't interested in him in the beginning but he kept pursuing me and I just fell in love with him for him. can't answer your question, but maybe tidbits.. some women become different critters during pregnancy, and even after..not accussing, not saying it's right or wrong, but it is true, this may account for a difference in treatment..right or wrong. Still have questions? He definitely hasn't lost interest....he's gained it!!! Why this photo of Markle sends a powerful message, 'Property Brothers' show sued by homeowners, Fact check: Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez's net worth, Johnny Damon during arrest: 'I am Blue Lives Matter', Trump, hungry for power, takes on RNC fundraising, Stars react to Piers Morgan leaving show over royals row, Chipotle unveils new product, but there's a catch, Edelman to Heat player after slur: 'Hate is like a virus', House passes Biden's $1.9 trillion relief package, More accusers allege sexual misconduct against couple, Piers Morgan stands by Meghan Markle remarks. Meih. However! I did this quiz and I don't think the results are valid ;-;. While you can't expect to feel 24/7 butterflies, one of the top signs you've 11 Signs Your Husband has Lost Interest in You. 11 Signs Your Husband has Lost Interest in You. 10 answers / Last post: 2/11/2016 at 6:55 AM. 7. We have been intimate twice in the last two years. And they do the same. Did you force yourself to stay in a marriage with the wrong person for the kids? I love him dearly and I know he loves me. No. Thanks. 1. My husband has had virtually no interest in me sexually since I became pregnant, 14 years ago. Yeah, sure you can. What should I do? On another note, but by the same toke really... when your partner "starts" to call you names, it is your responsibility to put him in check. If i try to talk to him he says i'm complaining at him, i have done nothing but be kind, loving and caring to him since he went on medication. He looks up pictures of women of the same ethnicity as this woman he works with. Can you say, "depression" ? If he says, "Working in a auto parts store in Idaho" or "Being a car salesman in Miami" maybe you could say, "Hey, let's go now" and give him a little hope for his life. ? For the past couple of years, we had sex a couple of times a week...all parents understand what I'm talking about. Your husband has control issues. You can sign in to vote the answer. Also during our fights he once said that everyone was laughing at me because I am a whore. On the days that he is off, we are always together. I used to be much more attractive than my husband (not trying to put him down and I really love him). I wasn't interested in him in the beginning but he kept pursuing me and I just fell in love with him for him. In my town there's a free couples therapy place called First Things First that does couple/group counseling and workshops. Marriage is about sacrifices.